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Coming Back Into Desire
Desire is at the heart of our life force energy. Our eroticism is the same current that begins life itself; sexual connection that can eventually create new life. This is why desire is so vital, so deeply human. It’s not only about sex; our connection to desire is about vitality, curiosity, and the will to feel fully alive. And yet, so many of us find

Why Couples Therapy Will Be on the Rise in 2026 — and What It Says About Love Today
Even with the rise of AI-assisted therapeutic tools, couples therapy remains essential, because genuine attunement, emotional safety, and embodied connection can only be cultivated through human-to-human relational work. Many couples face challenges in their relationships, and seeking the support of a skilled couples therapist can be a transformative step toward deepening connection and moving toward conscious love. In 2025 and beyond, couples therapy is not only

Grief in Polyamory, Ethical Non-Monogamy and Alternative Relationships: What You Are Feeling Is Not Always Jealousy
Why Grief Shows Up and What It Means Grief isn’t something most people expect in polyamory and ethical non-monogamy. Love, after all, is about expansion, abundance, and deep connections. But when a partner connects with someone else, even in a way that aligns with our values, an unexpected ache can arise. It’s not always jealousy—it’s something deeper. So why does grief show up in polyamory

The Power of Somatic Sex Therapy: A Journey from the Mind to the Body
What is Somatic Therapy? Somatic therapy, at its core, is a form of body-centered therapy that taps into the deeply rooted connection between the mind and the body. Far removed from a ‘head-centric’ approach, somatic therapy invites us to explore and engage with our bodily sensations, tensions, and gestures as a gateway to emotional, psychological, and sexual well-being. This powerful modality extends to somatic sex

Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy: A Revolutionary Approach to Treating Depression and Enhancing Relationships
Are you grappling with depression that hasn’t responded to conventional treatments? Or perhaps your depression is putting a strain on your intimate relationships? The Love, Sex, and Gender Center is excited to offer an innovative, evidence-based solution: Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP). This method has shown promise not only in treating depression but also in revitalizing sexual and romantic relationships. What is Ketamine? Ketamine is

Navigating the Rough Seas: An Introduction to Couples Therapy
The Necessity for Anchoring Welcome, loving partners, to the ocean of relational life. It’s a grand sea, filled with beautiful sunsets, but also, inevitably, some turbulent storms. As with the experienced sailor, couples must learn how to both navigate smooth waters and weather the storms that will undoubtedly occur. This is where couples therapy, your navigational chart, comes into play. 1. Create Shared Goals